Thanks for chiming in! She was definitely pushing things along quickly. I think it was the kind of situation where she wants to "fail fast" and figure out quickly if it was going to work or not because she doesn't have a lot of time. She mentioned that she even had been scheduled to freeze eggs! She clearly didn't have a lot of trust in me being ready to be in a serious relationship since I was 100% open about my sitch. She expressed that repeatedly, to the point that I think it was as much about her insecurities as it was about me.
I actually had been seeing one other woman, but I pulled back from that because this was getting serious. I didn't and don't want to string someone along as a plan B. If I feel a connection with someone and it seems to be reciprocated I am not comfortable dating other people. That's just my own values. So, I'm starting again from zero. It's not what I wanted, but I am not going to be brokenhearted over it either. It was an intense three weeks, but it was still just three weeks. Plus, I have learned that holding on and torturing yourself is not a healthy choice. I know that I have the ability to let it go, so I will. If she wants to come back, much like my WAW, I'll deal with that if/when it occurs.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
