It sounds like your updates are sort of as one would expect. The fact that you and your wife are attending so many activities together and getting physically close seems very positive. The more you two deepen your connection the less she'll need OM one would assume. I do have a question though. Is it difficult to kiss your wife or go out with her to events knowing she cheated and may not be 100% done with OM? Or you believe she's definitely done with him? This is where I struggled the most when my husband returned the first time. I didn't want to make a fool out of myself knowing he might have some other woman on his mind.
