1 year in, and still surviving

[Gerda]

But his are the most real and raw expressions from an MLCer I have seen anywhere. I just read them again to remind myself.

Holy moly, OneArt -- I just entered that tunnel of your link, you are totally right about real and raw and watching the process play out. Had never read those before. I felt like my H was posting, but without the intellectual overlay. WOW. And of course, in his case, it turned around much more quickly.

And just thinking about that guy's wife, and the fact that I am her in so many ways. Wanted to give her a big hug and cheer her on.

When he talked about what he had done to his family and how he was never happy -- wow, vindication! I wonder if my H will ever admit that. And in my case, my H is setting out to destroy us financially too. Not to highjack. Just an amazing thread you showed us.

Wow, I am exhausted. And just took a half hour away from working that I didn't have!

But it was somehow good to read all that. WOW.