Oh Grace... that s#cks. I am so sorry that happened. I know what you mean about your new reality. It is an adjustment. I keep telling myself it is going to get better and in some ways it has, but I still really miss my H. I saw him for approximately 3 minutes this week. Basically a “hi” and that was it. To go from communicating with someone every day, multiple times a day, to literally nothing is very hard to get used to. I don’t even feel like we are coparenting right now... lit’s not like we have a bad relationship, it is like we have no relationship whatsoever. It is very hurtful. Sending you big (((hugs))) across the miles.
