I will be calling the bank in the morning, and simply shut down the possibility to make withdrawals on that account. End f story.

This has indeed turned into a business relationship, and that is how I adress it in order to detach myself. She is in it for cake-eating and for the security we provide. Well she can't have that with her behaviour.

It annoys me that I had to set my foot down, because I feel like I am really doing great, when I just give her and myself space. Then I don't have to be aware of her activities with OM (watching phone go nuts every night from texts) and whatever. Its her life, and she is free to live it as she pleases - I feel like I somehow fail, when I have to interact on a matter such as this, however I am now shutting down that account and thats the end of it. I would feel more beta, had I not told her, that her actions are not okay I think?


BD: Wife says "its over" 11th august 2018.
EA: June 2018
PA: August 2018 - ongoing
Status: Taking turns 7 days a week to be in the house w. kids
WW: no regrets, seems happy with leaving.