If you really want to protect your assets you will start a new account at a different bank and move your direct deposit to that account. Does she have a legal right to the money during D proceedings? SURE. But she will not be able to control your money RIGHT NOW.
Don't fund her waywarding. This is her journey. She needs to pay the fare on her own dime.
Save yourself. Nobody is coming! BD:11/2017 Filed:12/2017 Final: 2/2018