I know I’m not supposed to trust his words, only his actions. But it felt kind of good to hear him say these things. It’s like he’s finally truly seeing some of the damage he’s caused. I’m not saying this changes anything but it does feel good to hear him acknowledge and show remorse for some of the stupid crap he’s done. I told him that I will continue to pray for him and he said thank you!
You're getting lots of great advice, and you seem to be doing well (given the situation, of course).
One small piece of advice, and a common saying here is:
"Believe nothing they say and only half of what they do".
So, my advice is that you shouldn't be so sure to believe in his actions.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.