oh em gee, i've been looking for you pinn! I cannot believe you've been D for a year now. (as have I yay us). I need to catch up on your past year but wanted to come by and say hi. the little recap you gave above lets me know you're doing just fine. I am in the same boat -no desire want or need to get back with the ex. dating seems like such a daunting task. perhaps you'll meet a lovely lady at a run or on a hike. who knows?! I prefer to meet people more organically than on a site, but it's slightly a little harder for me, lol. looking forward to hearing how your dating goes in the coming year!!!!