NC because, as sandi alluded to, she keeps setting you up to keep you attached, and you keep taking the bait. All of the texts. The hour at her place. It is all part and parcel of a WW trying to do whatever she wants (with OM) and keep her family and support.
Until you break that cycle you won't be able to move forward and she won't get to feel the pain of loss of what she had.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018