Hurt...what you just wrote sounds much more balanced and positive. this is much more about YOUR actions and YOU than it is about her. as you are likely to get more wayward/crazy coming at you, do your absolute best to keep steady as it comes at you. it will take you time and no one is perfect at this so ingrain that into your thinking. if you didn't see this...sandi in one of her other threads gave some good info i think you should keep in mind:
Originally Posted by sandi
It's not your job to administer punishment to her. It's your job to protect your own feelings (set boundaries around yourself) and know what action you will do if those boundaries are crossed. It's not about you controlling her, but protecting yourself. You have to know how to separate making calm decisions rather than reacting to emotional pain. Are you focused on seeing her suffer...…….. or are you focused on protecting yourself from the pain she inflicts on you?
take care of you and your children, let W alone to do whatever she will...prayers for you as always.
