W took S14 snowboarding yesterday with OM. I tried not to react when S14 said his name, but I felt the shift in mood immediately. Not sure how to proceed with that. I don't know if S14 even knows about them or how W behaves when her and OM are with the kids. I don't want S14 to feel like he has to walk on eggshells around me. I'm incredibly angry with W right now. I'm trying to zen myself out right now. FML