I used to post on here as Julieh. I think we used to post to each other.
I can totally relate to those lingering feelings of anger about the gaslighting amd secrecy, even while moving forward with your life in a positive way.
My ex blamed so much on me. And then i found out he had a secret alcohol problem and was withdrawing 700 a week from bad neighborhoods for a minimum of 3 years. I still havent found out if there was a OW. But i would imagine there has to be. And it still enrages and upsets me so so much. Its like they didnt even respect us enough to just come clean. If i had known i would have detached so much earlier.
Thanks for posting. Im glad things are looking up for you. Congratulations.
