Wow. That meal sounded great and the house must have look fantastic. I did smile at your admission of not knowing what to do, like a teenager at a fancy diner - which fork am I supposed to be using. Actually, which fork are we supposed to use? smile I’ve just started on the outside and worked my way inward. Lol

I am sure your kids felt very special as well; presidential was a good way of describing it.

The Elf on the Shelf become a thing, or known to me, after my children had outgrown certain beliefs. The magical time of year still exists, just the wide-eyed innocents and gleeful joy of the young remain in memories. I totally understand why you want it to last as long as possible.

Children are wholesome and pure with their feelings and observations. Your W is a Scrooge. It is a difficult spot to be in for you. Do not discount or dismiss their observations, feelings, or truth. At the same time you do not need to jump on board and further it. Sometimes, being silent or saying very little is the best communication.

Mom sure is being a Scrooge. / Yes, she sure seems like it. Pretty sad. ...... Now, where do you think we should put Elfy so he doesn’t get into too much trouble?


marina, stay the course, you are doing an awesome job.

DnJ

Feelings are fleeting.
Be better, not bitter.
Love the person, forgive the sin.