Hello all. It's been a while since I last posted. I celebrated my first wedding anniversary with my husband yesterday! Everything is going very well. He had a vasectomy reversal a few weeks ago, and we're both looking forward to expanding our family in the New Year. (It's amazing how he finds opportunities to express how excited he is about this; I seriously did not know that husbands could feel that way based on my previous experience.)
Things with XH have been rough this year, mostly due to some lingering trust issues that came up during an on-going disagreement regarding our daughter. But, it seems to be resolved, at least for now. XH recently told me he is dating someone and it is getting serious and he wants to introduce her to our daughter. I am genuinely happy for him and hope this means he is turning a new leaf in his life. (He never did acknowledge the existence of OW to me, and I hope for his new girlfriend's sake he isn't still seeing her.)
It's funny -- I still think he was wrong to have left and broken up our family, but the more I interact with him (and reflect on past interactions) I realize what a difficult person he was to live with. I'm never going to say that our divorce was "for the best" but I love my (current) husband and think we are MUCH better suited for each other than XH and I ever were.
