Davide... your description of your W being ruled by feelings as opposed to values is exactly my H. I asked him once what his values were and he wasn’t able to answer me. Not sure he has really thought about it before.
Re: the doctor. She seems to recognize that dating you is a risk given your sitch but is also upset with you about it. Her not wanting to see you right now should not be viewed as a rejection. I think it is the opposite. I think she knows she is too invested already and wants to protect herself from being hurt. The best defense is always a good offence, right? Anyway, she probably wanted you to argue the “we shouldn’t see each other” stance she was taking. Sounds more like the dating version of a temperature check. Just my opinion.
