You're being totally selfish. Why do you come to the board when you don't listen to the advice given? You couldn't just be you had to tell her you were going to look at furniture to get a reaction out of her.
Being strong for your kids by detaching and GALing for the next three weeks isn't being a doormat. You have been a doormat but now isn't the time. It's called putting your kids first. You're like a little kid pouting if you don't want to play the game the way I want to play that you need to go home.
I lived with my ex for a year and a half until she got a house because that is what was best for EVERYBODY involved.
You're spinning out of control and will do more damage. Stop and breathe and just let go.
