Just so we are on the same page I said I would always keep the door open for you if you wanna have a talk about an R down the road. Basically Coach CW mindset, but the wrong approach. Basically it screams look at me I want to be plan B. I am open to a reconciliation, but not being plan B.
When I saw OP I mean other person as in any other person. Any OW for me, and any OM for her. No idea if OM1 is even in the picture anymore and its probably better to treat them all like OP=OM1=OM2, etc., etc., etc.
Yes this is happening fast. It's going to be 4 months from BD to D. If the court system hadn't bogged her down it would be 2. I am adapting fast, but like you said it hasn't been long. It's not been enough time for my emotions to catch up. It feels crummy feeling like a disposable H and a disposable MR. Other people saw the signs and had problems months to years before BD. My sitch was literally like a Bomb Dropped out of the blue. Still reeling from the carnage.
H(37) W(35) D8, D5, S3 T20, M13 BD 8/31/18 EA Discovered 9/13/18 Mediation 10/3/18 W files for D 10/12/18 W moves out 11/10/18 EA confirmed 12/25/18 D Final 1/10/19
