I agree with Ginger. God it's so hard not to be critical of what they do and/or thinking of what we can do to get them to notice.
Every time I even think about what my WW is doing I just immediately imagine something positive I'm doing. Every time I think of something to do for myself I take a step back and ensure that I am truly just doing it for myself.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019