Originally Posted by doodler
harvey,

I'm searching for the right words and I can't seem to find them. Maybe I should ask a question (or two, or three).

You're divorced, right? You didn't split the accounts before the divorce? And you expected that to go well?


We are in a unique situation. We have a house here and a house out of state that we are in the process of selling. The timing for the DB was not ideal. We were in the process of relocating to another state. Of course, she wanted the big house when we built here and she wanted the big house when we moved to another state. It still burns my ass that she said she now realizes she doesn't need a big house. She plans to move to a downtown apartment when we are settled. That's fine. I plan on having a house and yard, so the girls have some space.