not one that I feel like I can dump that on. I had become co-dependent and have friends, but they are mostly our friends and I don't want to mix that up right now. I had several close friends over the years, but have let myself get sucked in to where my world revolved around her.

That's the one I still need to work on.. I'm getting out and doing things, either with my kids or by myself, but haven't really put myself out there in a way to get close to anyone. I have tons of people in town that I'm friendly with, it's just the one's i'd consider close enough to disclose my sitch to are all "our" friends.


Me- 47
Her- 43

S-20
S-18
S-13
S11

Together 23 years
Married 21 years

EA confirmed 11/13
EA "ended" 1/14
PA confirmed 10/18
Started MC 11/18