DB again... too late or last strike

[Did]

w asked how is she doing. I said shes doing well playing in the gym now (ive been working at a table at her school)
w said miss her a lot. I have not responded. I will just facetime her on the way home and let d4 have the phone.... or do nothing / say nothing?

I just had a call with a coach I may start working with hes done some ted ex talks and has similar situation with ex and kids- https://jimmydefalco.com/coaching

cost is reasonable $800 for 3 months with weekly 1 hour call with action items... and $700 if you pay up front.