Originally Posted by Bern19
I guess you can't really call it cuddling... She puts her hand on my arm and pulls my hand up on her knee. Nothing to write home about. Of course I would have killed for her touch 3 months ago...

I heard back from one PI, but his retainer is out of sight. Tried explaining my sitch and that it would only be 2-5 hours of surveillance, tops. Hard to justify $500/hour....

I want to get this over with as soon as possible so we can figure out how to move on. The longer it takes, the closer we get to christmas and I don't want to dump this on my kids too close to the holiday.


Good god. I should maybe consider a career change and I'm an attorney......

Maybe you should do a little of your own investigative work? Put some type of a recording device in her car? I remember reading a thread on here that someone did that.


M: 34 W:34
D:7 D:6 S:3

M: 9.5 years T: 12

OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18
IHS begins
W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18
W files: 12/21/18
D Final: 2/25/19