What do those guys have that you don’t have? I can totally relate Burned. Whenever I see couples, I ask myself the same question. Answer: a loyal, committed spouse. Unfortunately, people don’t come with warning labels. My H’s would be... Warning: Selfish manchild. Unrealistic idea of relationships. Expects others to make him happy. Conflict avoidant so you will never have a chance to work through anything. He lies as easily as he breathes and bails instead of doing the work. Run, don’t walk. He will only break your heart if you stay. If only...