Dude, you are a better man than I am. There’s no way I could cuddle and hold hands with my W when I knew she was doing as you suspect. I’m not patient enough to handle that....Probably part of the reason I haven’t seen any improvement in my situation!

I’m with you though, I need facts too. Not knowing the truth drives me absolutely nuts.

I’m curious what the PI finds so update us! Stay strong!


M: 34 W:34
D:7 D:6 S:3

M: 9.5 years T: 12

OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18
IHS begins
W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18
W files: 12/21/18
D Final: 2/25/19