Ryan, I appreciate that. I don’t really feel like I have things under control. I’m just learning how to let go of the rope as it were. I really don’t think I’d be able to handle the IHS. How does that work? Can you give me some pointers on how you interact. Does she still sleep in your bed? I know the time is near when I get to make a demand that I can live with. I just doubt she’ll pack up and leave... thanks again.


Me- 47
Her- 43

S-20
S-18
S-13
S11

Together 23 years
Married 21 years

EA confirmed 11/13
EA "ended" 1/14
PA confirmed 10/18
Started MC 11/18