Did you seriously tell her what she can do on her phone while there? If I were her I would have told you not to come over. Straight no. Why did you want to go there anyways? You need to stop visiting daughter there. You need to stop finding stupid reasons to text her.
You literally tell everyone that you are going to detach and go dark and within hours you contact her. As a woman, I ca see why she is not wanting to be with you.
You said you want harsh. You need to get some respect for yourself. And fast.
