The PI is just so I have the facts. If you've never dealt with someone that will lie to you, even though you know the truth, you might not understand. It's only about having the info I need. I've "jumped the gun" confronting her so many times over the past 3 years with partial information only to have her come up with some "semi-plausible" explanation that I can't refute because I don't have all the facts. I'm done with that type of confrontation. I've made it this far, I can hold on for a few more days till I have what I need to be comfortable moving on. Maybe your a different type, one that could move on without the facts. I am not that person. Thanks for your post.


Me- 47
Her- 43

S-20
S-18
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Together 23 years
Married 21 years

EA confirmed 11/13
EA "ended" 1/14
PA confirmed 10/18
Started MC 11/18