Davide I am very happy for you! You have taken your life back from the tough place you have been for basically the same amount of time I have. At a certain point enough is enough and if life brings new opportunities and hope to you then go for it. You have stood and endured long enough.
I marvel at how you say your W was emotional confessing love and conflicted. I have seen exactly zero of that in my sitch. No matter though, nothing left for me now but to do the paperwork and remove her from my life. I have appreciated your kind words of support throughout. Enjoy the bright light and fresh air at the end of the tunnel!