Mlc wife

[marina7]

R,

Sorry you find yourself here, but you found a great
Place,

There are many wise people here, and I honestly can say
God, first and DnJ and Peacetoday and Dejavu and so
Many more here I can name help me with this process

Everytime I was ready to give up, they reminded
Everything they offer I took even we are in different
Country and states this group has been my rope I been
Holding on too.

Now your like many of us, we want answers

Unfortunately Mlcers is a long road. Your W is not
going to snap out of it. The question is are you willing to
wait. Is like your W being in a como. Because when your W
Does wake up I have read many stories they don't remember

They will be shock on everything they have created.

I am being honest I also think I went through a MLCers
And I don't remember nothing. I sometimes get Facebook
Memories from that year. And let me tell I wrote some ridiculous
Thing.

But I woke up and became a better me. And found God again

It almost took me to die but if that it what I needed
Then I am glad I did. Because even my kids say you where
A good mom but your like amazing now.

So that shows us is a process. You got to let W go.

I also want you to know even if your not involved
with a church you still can go to one and ask them.

They have Divorce groups,
www.divorcegroup.com

You can find one.

As Peacetoday said listen to lots of Spiritual videos

YouTube does wonders even when your driving.

I am going on 1yr and 8 months and I can be drinking and
Tears will flow.

R, is ok to cry and scream let it out.

Don't let anger get the best of us.
We build up anger because we don't want to cry.

Yelp that was me. Until finally and let myself feel and tears
Just came and I couldn't stop crying for 4 to 5 hours but
It felt so good to just let it out. And scream and
Remind myself is Ok M to feel this way.

But remember is not your fault
This was going to happen even if your W married
Someone else. This was already part of plan.

So keep writing, one of us will get to you.

We are all here to support each other