I felt pretty good about how I handled it. Of course there were some conflicting emotions running beneath the surface, but I really wanted to be brief, pleasant, and avoid any digs or passive-aggressive remarks. And I mainly succeeded.
I don't really think that there were any changes in what she told me or how she carried it. She was conflicted, emotional, and professing love, but she was doing that all along. Every time we have talked about the separation or possible divorce, or splitting up the house, she has had trouble dealing with it. But really, that is on her. It hurts me, but these are the natural consequences of her decision and I can't face up to them for her.
Neffer, your read on the situation is pretty much exactly how I read it. I went into the encounter without expectations, and I have left it without expectations.
No sé cómo sería posible pero me encantaría hablar con vos en algún momento (aunque creo que me costaría mucho entender tu acento!)
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
