Slow burns are way better. All over eachother from the start burns out as fast as the light up.
M was not all fireworks first date. We had a very sweet kiss, no tongue, in the parking lot. A nice 3 hour date where we just got to know eachother. 2nd date had a little tongue action, in the rain in the parking lot, but not very long (it was raining) but left us both with that stupid smile. 3rd date the fire definitely built. Hot kiss leading to hot sex..... and it has only been uphill from there.
Maybe the 3rd date some wine at your place, but if you are doing 2 dates 2 days apart, go a little easy.