Davide, sounds like it was a difficult conversation for you (and for her) but the way you describe it, you handled it like a champion. (I don't know how you felt internally; reading it, picturing myself there, my entire body was tense.)

Not textbook DB but quite elegantly done.

As an outside observer, and by no means a DB expert, but a neutral third party: the timing is interesting. Maybe a coincidence, but you're seeing someone, and calmly talking about how she and you are really moving toward "the end," and then she starts saying those things. Maybe her "WAW 6th Sense" is picking up on your changes and maybe that is resulting in some second thoughts. Or at least ambivalence, or mixed feelings, whatever it may be.

If you're still open to R at this point, you seem like you're playing it cool. I see some potential there. Of course I only know what you write here, so I could be way off.


H: 35 W: 33
M: 11 T: 13

4/10/18: I discovered A and confronted ("BD1")
6/23/18: I moved out
8/31/18: MC ends ("BD2")