You asked for brutal honesty so I will give it to you.
You pretty much sealed your fate that you are getting divorced. I think she may have possibly started to rethink things until you had a major major set back yesterday. So sure there is a chance of recon but it went way down because of yesterday.
You keep asking the same questions over and over and you are given great advice to implement which you totally disregard and it ends up setting you way back. Then you come back the next day and apologize for screwing up and asking the same questions.
You need to do your homework, you still don't know Sandis rules, what detachment is and you are still trying to validate an extremely wayward women.
I am really concerned about you I. You have the most disrespectful W on the board and you come here and basically say "guys do you think she'll take me back someday".
I know this is hard I am not discounting that but you have to at least try to do the right things. If not for you, be strong for your kids and show them how a man responds to adversity.
I have not seen one guy here who has done the work not come out better on the other side.
