I started using LRT in early September after she refused to stop the A and said she was happy now and was falling in love with him. I told her i disagreed with what she was doing, but it was her choice. I said i wanted to save our marriage, but i cant when she was having an affair. Thats where she infamously said "It's not an affair". Same thing AP said to his exgf. She was truly in the fog (still is) with no interest in reconciliation or remorse.
This is a woman who said only a few month's prior, " i love you more than i love myself" "You're the best thing that ever happened to me "

I didn't beg or plead her to stay. When she messaged me at the end of Sept looking for a divorce and for it to happen in her country, i took action a few weeks later my sending her a legal letter, in order to protect myself and get sone power back, as i don't want to travel abroad for a divorce, especially when they speak another language.

She hasn't responded to my solictor in over 8 weeks or i havent heard anything from back in regards a seperation or divorce.

She's continuing her affair and basically sitting on the fence, by not doing anything.

Yes they have limited access, seperate countries. Flights only to meet up.

P.HYSICAL
I.NTELLECTUAL
E.MOTIONAL
S.PIRITUAL

We are physically separated since August 2018. NC since late September. A is still going on.

Last edited by Manta; 12/06/18 11:13 AM.

BH: 36 WW:33
M: 2
Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018
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1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019
LRT: Oct 2018
WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)