So back to my question (sorry I just wanted to give a little back story) can you be more specific about how I can do a 180 when being intimate. Also what would I research? Thank you so much for your help!
Ovrrnbw stated it well.
Also, browse the book store in the sexuality section. Lots of ideas for change there.
I believe there are lots of 180s. The key is to make it exciting and unknown. Unpredictable.
Location. Initiation. Who crosses the finish line first. Who is directing. How long the session lasts. How many times each of you crosses the finish line. How frequently. When foreplay starts. Costumes. Toys. Acting.
Ahhhh I’ve got it. A few months ago I saved a bunch of articles in my bookmarks about how to turn your partner on and about trying new things. Maybe I’ll break out a few of those. I also like the idea browsing the book stores sexuality section. I’ve got a few things I would like to try.
So I can add this to my other techniques and like you said, make this fun. I also know to have zero expectations because who knows what will happen with my H. He’s so all over the place. One day he wants out, the next day he loves and misses me. I also don’t plan on being available every time he wants. It’s pribabky wrong to feel this way but I want him to suffer a little.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
