So back to my question (sorry I just wanted to give a little back story) can you be more specific about how I can do a 180 when being intimate. Also what would I research? Thank you so much for your help!
Ovrrnbw stated it well.
Also, browse the book store in the sexuality section. Lots of ideas for change there.
I believe there are lots of 180s. The key is to make it exciting and unknown. Unpredictable.
Location. Initiation. Who crosses the finish line first. Who is directing. How long the session lasts. How many times each of you crosses the finish line. How frequently. When foreplay starts. Costumes. Toys. Acting.
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