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Send one last reply. Pick your favorite charity. Ask her to make a donation to that charity with the money.

Then it will be closed.


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I responded saying i won't reply to her going forward unless its a geniune post divorce need.

She responded saying she was sorry to have invaded my private space. And going forward she won't bug me in future. Take care.


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Hi all,

How are things going on? Been a while. Just checked in to say 'hi'


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Hello everybody,
How is the holiday season going on for everyone? I happened to visit some places around meeting friends and people around. Life is a bit lonely but hanging in there being content and happy.

Just thought of checking in since its been a while I have been here.


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It’s always nice to hear how a DBer is doing. How are you N? How’s GAL going?


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Absolutely fine. I have had opportunities to meet new people. I am pretty much busy the entire week , including weekends. I have meetup groups and other activity lined up so i hardly find time. These days a bit free due to the holiday season, so I had some chance to peek into some posts and realized a lot more new posts have popped up since i last left smile. But anyways .. despite being a bit lonely, I have been happy, peaceful and content in my life. Some have even commented that I look happier these days (although they have no idea about my personal life.. lol )


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Nutcrac, I know I gave you some harsh advice in the past. However, having you come back happy and healthy I think we both can agree that it has been beneficial! You moving forward was always the goal. Your updates today are all very positive and it wonderful to see. Onward and upward!


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Thank you Steve85.. all advices were good.. and of course we agree to disagree.. and I am happy I found this forum. I still have a long way to go in pursuit of future outlook. But I am doing as positive as I can be. One thing I found is good healthy diet and gym and long walks in nature definitely help.


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Hello Forum members!

Hope all are having a good holiday season!
I had a Q regarding my situation. One of our common friends with ex is keeping in touch with me and asking my whereabouts once in a while. He was not very close before divorce but we were in touch once in a while. I am not the one to initiate the conversations but it appears he is messaging me once in a while to check on me. How should my response be ? Should I communicate at all and if yes how and what ?

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Is he closer to your XW than he is to you?


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