Hurt, we all fell off the DB horse. A lot. It is hard because we want things to go back to normal, so when the WW spouse starts acting like she used to we get our hopes up. We slip up. We get reattached. And do not think for a minute this isn't exactly what she wanted. WWs are the epitome of manipulative. "I have to keep this guy attached so I can have the family and the house, and the finances. But I still want to do whatever I want to do......"
The key is to get back up and get back on that horse. DO NOT GIVE UP. We can't change anything that has already happened, but we can learn from it and do better from that point forward.
Hang in there.....
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
