Yeah good points DH. I am not sure why so much so fast maybe it's hormones who knows. Correct, this is all about her. I am apprehensive and I have gotten the impression from her that she is trying to hold back but for some reason can't help herself with showing interest. IDK it could all be 1 and done after tonight also.........no expectations and I will try to stick to the coaches plan.
I agree on the cats theory but she is not leaving my lap..................................
Also it very well could be that while we haven't met yet maybe she thinks I check off all of her boxes and meeting is just the confirmation. She has been single for a while so who really knows.
No expectations, stay in my center, and go at my pace with what I am comfortable with.
We are meeting in a neutral town so unless something crazy happens in the back of my Highlander I don't think sex is on the table. Now if things go great tonight (I will go for the kiss) then I am 100% sure our Friday date will change into something different. I could always invite her over to my place for Netflix and chill
She did tell me yesterday that she has never had sex with another guy without the both of them getting tested for STD's first. I guess I will find out if her actions are congruent with her words.
I’m going to bet $100 that there will be no STD tests and that’s a whole bunch of BS and you will be the “first” one she has more than 1 drinks with and the “first” one she has sex with without DTF tests.
Hate to hijack this already busy thread but LH19 do you have your own thread here? If not why not? Four dates in four days.... You really should be talking about this. Things are way too slow around here not to. Sounds like Joseph totally understood your "code" - me, not so much. So you are or are not interested in this first one? It sounds to me like you could be but you just dont fit what she wants - plus when does she have time?
And, forgive me, I am bad at remembering names - as I demonstrated above - including screen names. Lol. But she sounds young? Or are you the 50 something that insists on dating 30 somethings? I reall cannot remember but that would make sense.
DH, I thought about starting my own thread here on my 50th birthday in November but changed my mind so sometimes I just high jack Js thread lol.
It's actually 4 dates in 6 nights and it looks like one could get pushed back. I was interested and had high hopes based on our texting convos but too many things put me off. The old pics, not be upfront about how many kids and the deal breaker of not wanting me to date anyone else after one date. She is 46.
No I have my range down to 35. I have dated as low as 27. I am very physically fit and have been told I am a taller version of Pitbull so I do attract younger women.
I thought about starting my own thread here on my 50th birthday in November but changed my mind so sometimes I just high jack Js thread lol.
Dude, start your own thread! You've got some good info to share - certainly as good as anyone else around here. Just do it. Jump in, you'll be fine!
Originally Posted by LH19
I have my range down to 35. I have dated as low as 27.
Hmmmm, not sure if you're the same guy I'm thinking of then or not. I just remember someone like only wanting to date women half his age - or not far from. Whatever, to each his own I guess - just another odd observance. I mean they may be fun to play with now and then but I struggle with being 55 and having Wild Girl at 42. I could not imagine 32 or for crying out loud 27 - well then again... but we just made out once, and that was it (the 32 year old).
Originally Posted by LH19
And stop talking about “herpes girl”. We are better they that guys... “H girl” perhaps? Poor girl...
Oh man, I was a touch proud of coming up with that one. I mean, it's not like none of us know exactly who we are talking about. We need to have distinctive names to keep everyone straight - I mean, I can't remember who is who with the screen names - it's next to impossible if everyone is "homegirl"
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
I would be so so so turned off if I was in this situation. Interesting how different people are. But you do you J! Popcorn time J9... good luck!
I'm glad I'm not alone then. I mean, by my own admission I'm both very picky and critical as well as avoidant of anyone wanting a whole lot - especially up front. It makes me wonder if perhaps I should be seeing things like Joseph is and being excited that someone is that into me. Instead I can't get past, WHY - why is she sooooooo into me soooooo fast - can't even wait two more days to see me?
And also,
Originally Posted by Ginger1
I’m going to bet $100 that there will be no STD tests and that’s a whole bunch of BS and you will be the “first” one she has more than 1 drinks with and the “first” one she has sex with without DTF tests.
No way in hell I'm taking that bet. "I don't want you to get the wrong idea about me. I've never done this with anyone before." In fact isn't that how herpes girl claimed she became herpes girl - the very first and only time? Yeah, Ginger, not taking your bet! Sorry!
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
