Yeah good points DH. I am not sure why so much so fast maybe it's hormones who knows. Correct, this is all about her. I am apprehensive and I have gotten the impression from her that she is trying to hold back but for some reason can't help herself with showing interest. IDK it could all be 1 and done after tonight also.........no expectations and I will try to stick to the coaches plan.

I agree on the cats theory but she is not leaving my lap..................................

Also it very well could be that while we haven't met yet maybe she thinks I check off all of her boxes and meeting is just the confirmation. She has been single for a while so who really knows.

No expectations, stay in my center, and go at my pace with what I am comfortable with.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018