Yeah Nef who knows.......could have been a huge temp check or it was an honest mistake.
Well if that crazy guy who went 0 to 60 in three seconds (can't remember his name) is to be believed, it HAD to have been on purpose - no doubt about it. I on the other hand am certain it was an accident. What happened to him I wonder - never came back. Oh well.
Hate to hijack this already busy thread but LH19 do you have your own thread here? If not why not? Four dates in four days.... You really should be talking about this. Things are way too slow around here not to. Sounds like Joseph totally understood your "code" - me, not so much. So you are or are not interested in this first one? It sounds to me like you could be but you just dont fit what she wants - plus when does she have time?
And, forgive me, I am bad at remembering names - as I demonstrated above - including screen names. Lol. But she sounds young? Or are you the 50 something that insists on dating 30 somethings? I reall cannot remember but that would make sense.
As for this coach... My early impression is he has a pretty solid understanding of things and much I'd agree with and try my best to follow. But ivevinky gotten through his ideas on women in general. He seems lacking in doe cities of what tondo about it. One major downside is rather than explain things in the book, he keeps saying "Google this video" well beyond being a huge pain his videos are very lacking compared to the book so it is really a detractor. The other thing and this may be very honest and legit on his part - paraphrasing, rather than being a book of "how to get any woman" his is much more "how to get any woman who is interested in you in the first place." I give an A for honesty at least but he clearly is about seeing if they show interest and his answer if they do not - move on. Well I guess, good and fine, but what if you really want that one - too bad, she doesn't want you. It's a lot like hunting on a game preserve rather than in the wild. I'm not through it all yet but I'm concerned it's more about understanding wines and less direction on how to meet and keep them. He's also divorced with no long, long-term Rs - that's skyways a flag for me when people tell others how to do what they cannot. Like the "millionaire matchmaker" from TV a few years shonwhinhad never been married with many failed Rs. It's like trusting a doctor who smokes.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
I would agree DH I believe it was an honest mistake.
On a side note home girl reached out to me again telling me how her interview went and then sent me some erotic GIF of Alicia Silverstone biting into some baked good all sexy like. It totally took me by surprise as it went from interview talk to the emoticon so I replied with.
ME - You lost me...... ME - But very erotic ME - Does that mean I get more than 1 drink on Friday? (she told me she normally only meets guys for 1 drink on the first date)
I guess I need to read the tea leaves..................
Wait, wait, just wait one minute. Didn't you refer to herpes girl as "home girl" is that who you are talking about again here? If not... Why are these two sounding (and acting) more and more alike all the time?
I swear, I'd be getting a little bit scared and pulling back a little at this time. If men act like dogs and women act like cats... This girl is not acting like any cat i know. Ginger are you sensing the warning flags I Am?
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
Sry DH I used the word home girl ubiquitously. I guess I need to find a name for this one.
It still kind of goes back to the same thing that I mentioned earlier with men or woman in general that run into someone that they really perceive as a catch and they have a very high attraction level. Does this cause people to do things totally out of the norm based on what they are feeling? I am sure she has had plenty of dates where it was 1 and done, check please and nothing transpired.
Definitely pause for concern but like with Herpes girl I haven't heard from her in over a week so obviously she figured it out. Both of these woman have went on many, many dates this particular girl she has been divorced since 2010 so I am sure has seen it all. So when they finally meet a guy they perceive as a real catch does that cause them to act muy loco????
So when they finally meet a guy they perceive as a real catch does that cause them to act muy loco????
Very good and loaded question. My first reaction is neither of you know squat about the other. At best all she can be doing is hoping you are who she WANTS YOU TO BE in her head. You have not even met. Having feelings like this even after a first meeting is in no way stable or grounded. I guess that's how people get engaged before even meeting someone. They talk or text for months, call him her BF yet they never met. It's why scams happen like they do. This is not a scam in any way but it's just as ungrounded.
But the loaded part of the question is the fact that you are giving her a pass for ungrounded behavior. So if she is really into you then it's okay to act a little nutty - as in oh she's just so into me she can't help herself. Really? Perhaps she could be into you AND crazy. Both are possible.
Honest to God when I read that I thought for sure it was Herpes girl who sent that gif - as it totally fit. I hope you've not met another one like her. So far some of the pieces are fitting - or could be.
All this means is you can't tell who someone really is until months sometimes years of knowing them. Don't lose your hood. Don't lose the anticipation but believe who a woman shows herself to be. She is showing you a picture of who she is. If she really thinks she's found a great guy - without having met him, wow that's scary.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
Makes sense DH......she responded to my texts by just saying "HAHA!" which is not a "no" so she isn't denying. Correct, I will continue to watch and observe. I have not got any nudie or bedroom pics like I got with H girl........yet so we shall see if that comes next.
If she turns out to be another lunatic I guess I am going to have to change something up as it appears I am doing something to attract them. In this situation she swiped on me first and has been heavy in pursuit ever since outside of when she pulled back on me Sunday through Tuesday morning but now since I reached out she has been full steam ahead again.
Ok well she just reached out again and wants to move our date on Friday up to tonight. So we are going to meet tonight after she lands back in town around 10 pm for a drink. I guess she is a little excited to meet ole J9.
Ya me too. This will be a good test... Joseph is excited. I'd be a little, okay maybe more than a little apprehensive. "Women are like cats" are you sure you read this book? Lol. OTOH she ckearly is showing interest. The question is why - and why so much so fast... that is most certainly NOT a dis on you Josoeh. It's all about her.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
