Moving on to the bright side Part 11

[DonH]

So when they finally meet a guy they perceive as a real catch does that cause them to act muy loco????

Very good and loaded question. My first reaction is neither of you know squat about the other. At best all she can be doing is hoping you are who she WANTS YOU TO BE in her head. You have not even met. Having feelings like this even after a first meeting is in no way stable or grounded. I guess that's how people get engaged before even meeting someone. They talk or text for months, call him her BF yet they never met. It's why scams happen like they do. This is not a scam in any way but it's just as ungrounded.

But the loaded part of the question is the fact that you are giving her a pass for ungrounded behavior. So if she is really into you then it's okay to act a little nutty - as in oh she's just so into me she can't help herself. Really? Perhaps she could be into you AND crazy. Both are possible.

Honest to God when I read that I thought for sure it was Herpes girl who sent that gif - as it totally fit. I hope you've not met another one like her. So far some of the pieces are fitting - or could be.

All this means is you can't tell who someone really is until months sometimes years of knowing them. Don't lose your hood. Don't lose the anticipation but believe who a woman shows herself to be. She is showing you a picture of who she is. If she really thinks she's found a great guy - without having met him, wow that's scary.