DO NOT INITIATE SEX. If he initiates you can participate but do not assign any significance or meaning to it. If you sleep with him do not be surprised if the next day, or week, or month he says "I still want out of this marriage." The mistake isn't in having sex...the mistake is in thinking it means the MR is back on track.
OMG I feel evil. If/when he initiates and you have decided to go along and it gets to a certain point, you can ask him if he has "protection".
W:"H, I do not want to have unprotected sex"
You can add: " until (more boundaries)" such as "A clean bill of health from a doctor" or whatever.
Less words is almost always better.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
