13 yrs and two kids pt. 2.

[SteveLW]

Wow. Just wow. Every time I read these kinds of posts about the actions of WWs, while not at all surprised, it definitely irks me. How they can be so cold and callous to the emotions some of their actions evoke. I am sure thre was temptation for you in that hug.

I have a story to tell. I have been pretty open about a very long on again, off again relationship I had with a girl. It started when I was very young and went well into adulthood. In this one instance in particular I had gone dark on her. I was tired of the up and down tug of war. She had a boyfriend that treated her like garbage, and they were always breaking up and getting back together. I learned not to take a breakup by them as positive news since it probably would only last a few days.

I hadn't spoken to her in a few weeks Then one night, as I was on my way out, she showed up at my house. "Can we talk?" Sure I said. She went into this long talk about wanting to know my feelings. I wasn't ready to open up like that since I didn't know the state of her relationship with jerk boy. After a few minutes of a pretty one-sided discussion (I mostly just listened) she told me to "come here". I was sitting in a chair she was on the couch. I went and sat next to her and she leaned in and planted a long, tongue-filled, passionate kiss on me. I saw shooting stars and fireworks. When it was over she stood up. And slowly walked up the stairs (we were in the basement to talk). I followed behind and heard the words come out of my mouth as if someone else spoke them: "I'll call you."

I left. The kiss was on my mind the whole week. The next week I went to my cousin's wedding. She was friends with the girl and this girl was in her wedding. I was thinking it was going to be a great day but while I was sitting in the church waiting for the wedding, I saw, you guessed it, jerkface (her bf) walk in. Apparently they were still together.

I blew her off that day and went dark again. A few weeks later she called and confronted me about being distant. I went off "What the heck? You come over, plant a massive kiss on me, get me all excited thinking we are going to be together, then I find out you and jerkface are still together! What am I supposed to think? What am I supposed to do?"

Her response. I will never forget it. "When I kissed you that night.........I thought I was kissing you goodbye."

ROFL That's all I can do now looking back is laugh. There was no way that was a goodbye kiss. That was a "I want to stay with my boyfriend but I want to give you false hope so you'll still be at my beckon call" kiss.

Long story but here is the point: she was doing nothing more than trying to keep you attached with her little underwear and sexy hug show. Don't fall for it. YOu did a great job, keep it up!