Entering into MLC doesn't happen instantly...it is a very slow process, i.e., just as exiting is. They will exit the crisis in the opposite order from when they entered it. Yes, it is a very, very slow process and if you are lucky enough to have your spouse, former spouse begin to reconnect, you, the LBS, must have a lot of patience because you cannot rush it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.