So I am still new at this but could it be possible that girls who have been dating for a while get really excited and do things they normally wouldn't do when they finally run into a "good guy" after weeding through all the undesirables? I am not saying it is right, I assume they don't have the DB board to talk to about it, but could that cause some women to do weird stuff?? Just curious.

I will say that it is nice to know they are attracted but it is also scary for me as well. I don't think I have thrown all caution to the wind with this one. I do honestly feel that the jury is still out but I can tell she is getting really comfortable with me. I do have some concerns with her personality and how well we would match together but I think that will flush itself out. I can see where she could be very dominate and in her masculine due to her job and that I would need to maintain my frame so I don't become one of her employees. She does not want a week man so this could be a really good test for me as a person. I know that I will have to be very self-aware and go at my pace, vetting/observing her along the way. Talking, chatting, texting is one thing but it doesn't mean anything until you meet and start interacting face to face.

I really honestly have no idea what will happen and at minimum I hope to have fun, feel some attraction, and go from there. If not next up and it was a good experience getting out of my comfort zone.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018