Actually I am trying to pull the reigns back and not get sucked in. We haven't even met yet although I have seen a ton of pictures but truthfully the jury is still out. Hanging out if we click sure but I definitely will not be professing any love for her any time soon and I won't be spending a ton of time with her because I simply don't have it. Assuming we mesh on Friday it wouldn't be until the next weekend before I would see her any way since I have my kids all next week.

I agree....way too soon to assume anything. She could be a stage 4 clinger, co-dependent, a pyscho or many other things.

Everyone gave me $hit for only going for a certain type which was the main premise of why a journaled what I did. also since G and J gave me advice and wanted cash money for it I thought they would be happy that she engaged after I listened to their advice smile

But.....honestly I do find myself pulling back/trying to hold back as I have had bad experiences before with good pre 1st date conversation and when we met in person I felt nothing.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018