Bo, time for a new thread, when you hit 10 pages that's your trigger to start a new one. Use the same title and add "part 2". In your first post of the new thread put a link to this one, and in your last post here put a link to the new thread.
Originally Posted by Bo562
Just gotta get this out.....went to go say goodnight to W (and gave her kiss on arm—oops)
I think if we're all honest here we know darned well this was no accident. You've got to stop the pursuit behavior, even a small thing like a kiss on the arm is PURSUIT. One thing you have to wrap your head around is she does not want that from you right now in any way, shape or form. If you read Sandi's posts one thing she stresses is just how far gone the WW can be, even to the point of finding her H disgusting and repulsive. Physical contact with you may literally make her sick to her stomach. So STOP it.
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As I was leaning towards her, in my peripheral vision, I saw her phone light up with a text notification....from a work colleague of hers I’ve had some issues with her being close with in the past.
Dude is texting her at 10:45 at night our time?
Again let's not dance around this, you didn't "accidentally" see this, you were just plain snooping. Again it's the little stuff like this that will continue to set you back to square one. DETACH. Like Cadet said, not one of us here (other than maybe you) is surprised by this. It is status quo for a WW.