Well I’ll certainly have a look for some groups in my area to see what is available although it’s quite a small village I live in but hope that there is something if not I’ll have to go further afield .i know that really the only person that can help myself is me but as you know it’s that old self esteem thing again or should I say the lack of it lol but yes I will see what’s out there. dejavu6 if I was nearer I would come to your party that would no doubt cheer me up