1. It's rarely a good thing (I'll explain the rare part in a moment) to snoop and sniff for details. Finding out the truth is much harsher than you ever hope it would never be. Ever. More often than not, things are likely worse than they seem, ESPECIALLY if an OM is involved. Steel yourself.
2. (The rare part) When you finally come to grips and realize at how deep the situation is with your W and OM, you will finally begin the process to truly drop the rope and detach. Speaking from experience here.
Tread carefully. And calculate each step you make in regards to this. Continue posting.
